I love cottonwoods with their branches, like arms, lifted high -praising God with all their strength! They defy gravity and grow towards Him against all odds and trials! When I see them I rejoice and remember Gods command to rejoice with those who are rejoicing!
I want a desert willow tree in my yard because it's weeping branches sweeping downward in an act of mourning reminds me to mourn with those who are mourning. Their leaves obscure their trunks, just as the sad and broken cover their faces in their hands, as they grieve.
The two trees and the verse they remind me of has always been a secret mystery to me. How can God rejoice and mourn in the extremes I know He alone can see: amazing glorification of Him in the hearts of His people while horrible gut wrenching atrocities are committed against the weakest and most defensless innocents of those He lovingly and carefully created? Although I know He is Alpha and Omega, I just could never fully understand this aspect of omniscience. I resigned myself to not needing to conseptualize this about my Heavenly Father-- His grace was totally sufficient and I didn't need to know.
And then, while sitting on the floor between our kids' bedroom, Mike and I shared a moment with our children....
Ryan had just lied to us and we called him on it. He was embarrassed and angry that we had caught him. He writhed on the floor; unwilling to engage us in conversation. We were both completely calm despite his horrible behavior. We continued to try to talk him through what he had just done and why it was bad. At one point he literally ran away from us screaming and hid. We laughed quietly, while Mike pointed out that in his boyhood immaturity, Ryan had just done what all sinners do figuritively to God at some point in their lives!!
Eventually, we got Ryan back on track, but he still was in his own little misery. It hurt to see him in so much self-created pain. Pain, regardless of fault, hurts. And although we had to stand firm on this character issue: my heart broke for his momentary suffering.
Meanwhile, our baby daughter was prattling around us just as sweet and beautiful as ever. She was delighted in everything mundane. While still disciplining Ryan and allowing him to choose his own misery, we were also loving and delighting in Ryleigh and all of her discoveries. Back and forth we went: Laughing with Ryleigh, engaged in Ryan's suffering, being firm in our parental disapproval of Ryan's wrong-doing, giving Ryan the latitude to know his own misery, and then laughing with Ryleigh again. In the same moment, I could be happy with one and sad with the other without losing my parental perspective of the big picture of guiding them to maturity in Christ.
Then it hit me: Yes, I was experiencing a shadow of what God is currently experiencing. It is far smaller on the scale of eternity versus the finite-- but then I am only in His image afterall!! I am His shadow. I only know the finite. My experiences WILL be smaller. But that does not negate the validity of their truths.
I am humbled to have the God of the Universe so sweetly and gently minister to me. He truly is the God Who Sees Me: He knows my secret desires of my heart as well as my unasked questions. He is not offended: He loves me so much that He engages me! Me? Who am I? I am dust. I am nothing. And yet He loves me and teaches me. And ministers to me. His love gives this broken sinner value. I am forever thankful for His loving care !!!
Rejoicing in Him!
Kelley Hutta